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The Amber Lilyestrom Show

Feb 26, 2019

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Have you ever wanted to make a significant investment or a big move in your life- and you come to find out that your partner isn’t on board? Have you ever wondered what the best way was to navigate this intimate situation?

Today, I invite you and your partner to cozy up, grab a pen and some paper- and dive in to this life-changing conversation together.

Psychotherapist and Therapeutic Relationship Coach, Rachel Wright, is recognized as one of the freshest voices on modern and millennial relationships. She is the co-founder of Wright Wellness Center where, together with her husband and team, she is on a mission to help people have better sex, relationships, and mental health, through a growing catalog of masterclasses, online programs, resources, and a supportive online community.

Kyle Wright’s calling is to change the way we view masculinity and how we talk and teach about mental health, relationships, and sex. He coaches men 1:1 to help them navigate their Modern Masculinity™, works with couples enrolled in Revive Your Relationship™, and teaches monthly masterclasses on topics related to mental health, relationships, and sex education.

Kyle & Rachel break some assumptions about their relationship like never fighting, how much intimacy is healthy, and how to communicate openly with your partner.

Vulnerability + transparency are a gift they love giving, and I can’t wait for them to share it with you.

In This Episode:

  • Kyle & Rachel did not like each other at first [ 9:00 ]

  • Couples work should be preventative [ 15:40 ]

  • When one partner wants to invest & the other does not [ 23:40 ]

  • “The Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse” are divorce predictors [ 34:15 ]

  • The most difficult time in Kyle’s life [ 39:45 ]

  • The life you want to have is possible [ 45:00 ]

  • A victim mentality is a normal trap [ 50:45 ]

  • Kyle trusted Rachel to follow her intuition about their next step [ 54:20 ]

  • What men want during sex [ 63:50 ]

  • Appreciation, compliments, and support [ 67:20 ]

Soul Shifting Quotes:

  • “People get really worried and scared when they think about doing couples work because they think they have failed.” -Kyle

  • “If you’re working on past stuff, that’s therapy. Coaching is like here and forward.” -Rachel

  • “A lot of times it has nothing to do with the money and everything to do with being terrified your partner is going to change without you.” -Rachel

  • “Women don’t want to be pigeonholed as the mom figure when they’re in their twenties.” -Kyle

  • “The biggest piece for Kyle and his growth was having the courage to say I feel massively uncomfortable and unhappy.” -Rachel

  • “Guys are taught not to really think too far ahead or to be aggressive with a new idea.” -Kyle

  • “We are all capable of getting the relationship that we want. The only way you can get it is by being super vulnerable.” -Kyle

  • “There is no need to shame yourself for any mistakes made in the past or things you wish could be different. Everything is possible for you.” -Rachel

Links Mentioned:

Learn more about Kyle + Rachel’s work at and be sure to follow them on Instagram: @wrightwellnesscenter

Tag me in your big shifts + takeaways: @amberlilyestrom

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